Published in The Weight of Desire·Feb 18Member-onlyHey Guys: Do You Need to Up Your Clitoral Game in the Bedroom?I am amazed by how much men like to eat pussy but how little they touch it with their fingers. Is that because of our clitoral-avoidant culture? Did healthcare professionals instill into us their own clitoral discomfort? Some urologists compare the vulva to “a small town in the Midwest,” said…Sex3 min readSex3 min read
Published in The Weight of Desire·Feb 16Member-onlyIs Finding Someone Attractive the Same Thing as Being Attracted to Them?My Attraction Criteria in the Straight Dating World — I can’t tell you how many times I have heard men say to me, ‘I find you very attractive’ or ‘I feel attracted to you, and so would like to see you again.’ I am left to ponder how is that even possible when not the slightest bit of chemistry…Relationships3 min readRelationships3 min read
Jan 11Member-onlyWhy do Young Men Keep ‘Liking’ Me Online?Are They like Sommeliers of Older Women? I find it so amusing that when I am active online dating sites, I get quite a few ‘likes’ from younger men. I have been as surprised as you might be, but there you have it. As far as I can tell, age is not a barrier for them. In…Dating2 min readDating2 min read
Jan 7Member-onlyYou Should Turn Into a Blintz, You Idiot!Find the Common Yiddish Words and Learn a Phrase to Yell When You are Really Pissed Off! — — — — — — — — — — -Photo from bellyful.net — — — — — — — — — — — — - Like most second generation immigrants, I never learned the language my parents and their parents spoke as their first language. Instead it was the…Yiddish2 min readYiddish2 min read
Jan 4Member-onlySpiritual Dimensions on Nearing DeathSpiritual Dimensions of Nearing Death This six-class series will be a opportorthunity for exploring the unexplored: near-death experiences, death as a…www.eventbrite.com Please join me for a class I am teaching for the Elizabeth Kubler Ross Foundation on Spiritual Dimensions of Nearing Death. This six-class series will be a opportunity for exploring the unexplored: near-death experiences, death as a presence/teacher & the special communication that can happen as one nears death.Spirituality1 min readSpirituality1 min read
Jan 2Member-onlyMy First Bad Omen of 2023The clicking tock took me to a whole new year as I blissfully and unknowigly slept. It was 2:15 am when the smoke detector first emitted its piercing alarm of 3 short, screeching stoccato sounds, followed by a 3-second break, following by a long screech. I was up, looking for…New Year2 min readNew Year2 min read
Dec 29, 2022Member-onlyWhy Parents Regret Having KidsAnd How Mothering Makes Me Obsolete About a decade ago, my friend the psychologist told me that most parents end up regretting having kids by the time their offspring become young adults. I didn’t believe her. Now I do. My kids are now young adults. I adore my daughters. And I love loving them and forgiving…Mothering2 min readMothering2 min read
Dec 5, 2022The gift of trauma that keeps on givingA long, long time ago, when I was growing up, I had a father who was wife and three daughters were terrified of him, leaving us to walk on eggshells whenever he was present and breathe more easily when he was not. He worked long, hard hours, to keep his…Domestic Violence5 min readDomestic Violence5 min read
Nov 29, 2022Looking for a new house is a lot like looking for a new boyfriend.First there was oh so much hunting online; scrolling through thousands of photos, trying to get a feel for what it really was like beyond the wide angle lens that makes everything look bigger and better; Then there was figuring out what I want in terms of price, age, size…Real Estate Investments2 min readReal Estate Investments2 min read
Oct 6, 2022“Why won’t the good Lord take me already?”It breaks my heart to see my 95 year old hospice patient suffer. “Why won’t the good Lord take me already?” she pleads each week. At first, she tantalized me with her colorful stories and her rebellious spirit. Running away from home in the Midwest to join a band as…Death And Dying2 min readDeath And Dying2 min read