How I feel about getting old. — My first thought is to clarify that, no, that is not a picture of me above, despite the beauty I see in her. See what I mean about not wanting to ‘get’ old? But let me say unequivocally that I do like ‘being’ older: I am in my mid-sixties and…

How this feminist woman signals men that it is okay to be themselves? — Good men overcompensate for the bad ones. And it gets a tad predictable and dull. On first dates, that is. For example, these good guys don’t assume I would be comfortable meeting them for a hike because they know many women don’t feel safe being in a somewhat secluded place…

… and I am in my 60's! — A few years ago, I found the jeans that I am wearing at this very moment in a donation pile in our garage headed for Goodwill. My daughter had thrown into it tons of clothes including about 10 pairs of jeans and they looked hardly used, so I grabbed them…

What I learned from being rejected after the first date — I have been online dating this round for about 4-5 months and my approach has drastically changed during that time. I used to have a list of ‘must haves’ and ‘deal breakers.’ I felt it was very important to keep track of the ‘checklist.’ It is so easy for me…

Why your 60s is the perfect time to open things up — I was sitting across from my date the other night — we are both in our 60s — and we got onto the topic of non-monogamy. He nodded his head enthusiastically when I said that non-monogamous men seem to be more interesting as people than monogamous men. …

Top ten ways older men get better and sweeter — As a mature woman in her sixties, I greatly enjoy online dating. It is a great way to meet interesting people. I always have loved research. Online dating is a major research project. First you need a great profile with current photos. It matters what you say because you want…

What Men Can Learn from Tidbitting — Roosters have been observed squirreling away delectable, desirable morsels of food, whether they be vegetable peels or rice or berries or beets, as a way to lure the hen of their desire into their good graces. Even roosters want to show hens that they got game. The rooster wants the…

Why An Emotional Support Companion In Our Last Days Makes Sense I am a companion for people at the end of their lives. I might sit with them while holding their hand and just listen. Or they might need help figuring out what is most important to them in their final days- would they accept being hooked up to machines? who…

I am amazed by how much men like to eat pussy but how little they touch it with their fingers. Is that because of our clitoral-avoidant culture? Did healthcare professionals instill into us their own clitoral discomfort? Some urologists compare the vulva to “a small town in the Midwest,” said…